بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
In the Name of Allah
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
by Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel Sahebرحمة الله عليه
The sawaab (reward) for the sabr (patience) a woman exercises over her difficulties in managing the home
of her husband and fulfilling the rights of her husband and children sometimes is such, which makes her ‘reach’ Allah Ta’ala very quickly. This, however, is conditional to her obedience to Allah Ta’ala; fulfilling
His Rights, the Rights of His Rasul صلى الله عليه وسلم, as well as the Rights of His Creation.
Women who have a number of children, sometimes even a temperamental husband, together with many household chores and other responsibilities sometimes think that they cannot achieve the ranks of the
Auliya Allah[1] because they do not have time for ‘wazeefas’[2] and Nawaafil (optional prayers).
I tell them that they need not worry about too many wazeefas. The most important ‘wazeefa’ is abstinence from all sins. Added to this they should just correct their niyyah or intention in all that they
are doing as routine housework. Make the intention of pleasing Allah Ta’ala, then that same housework becomes Ibaadah. In this simple way, they will easily secure great rewards and the same spiritual stages,
if not higher.
Similarly, the sawaab for the sabr (patience) a man exercises over his wife’s shortcomings, emotional outbursts or mood swings is a medium by which he too acquires great rewards and reaches Allah Ta’ala very, very quickly.
Many Auliyaa Allah reached great spiritual heights, and were accepted for tremendous service to Deen
on the patience they adopted with their wives, and on the love, care, affection, tenderness and generosity they also extended to their wives.
Rasulullahصلى الله عليه وسلم set the perfect example for husbands. Despite the tremendous responsibilities
that he was entrusted with, he gave due attention and time to his wives and treated them with love and generosity. He was never harsh or insensitive towards any single wife.
Rasulullahصلى الله عليه وسلم also said: “The best amongst the Believers is he is whose character is
the best. And the best among you is the one who is best towards his wife.”
[1] Auliya Allah : Friends of Allah Ta’ala
[2] Wazeefas : additional, optional supplications
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