The qualities of a righteous wife.
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Kalimataan - by Talib Al-Habib
Light on the tongue, heavy on the scales
سُبحان اللهِ وَ بِحَمدِهِ سُبحانَ اللهِ العَظِيمِ
Glorified be Allah and praised be He, Glorified be Allah, the Most Great.
Nabiصلى الله عليه وسلم said : Two words which are dear to the Most
Beneificent (Allah) both are light on the tongue and are heavy on
the scale.
(Bukhari)
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Affection and Motherhood
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
In the Name of Allah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
The mother is the heart and soul of the family. Her presence ensures
a systematic administration of all the household affairs. If the parents
reared their family correctly, then whether they live together or separately
in the future, the prestige, discipline and system of the family can always
be retained. Every member of such a family is dauntlessly able to face up
to any form of adverse conditions and he will be able to hang on to the
stout heartedness ingrained within him by his family and especially by his
mother.
In short, a person who has become familiar with turning defeat into victory,
for him every menace is child's play in which all players by consulting one
another overcome a difficulty with ease.
''I face up to the adversities of life with passion.
Life would have been difficult with comforts only.''
The person or family who holds firmly onto the rope of Allah Ta'ala and they
truly implement the verse, ''and hold firmly onto the rope of Allah'', for them
every defeat is transformed into triumph by Allah Ta'ala. They are bestowed
with tranquility and peace in their deeni as well as their worldly affairs.
If a mother is to overcome with fury over her children and she is unable to
develop the spirit of affection within herself, she should perform two rak'at
of salatul- hajah and pray unto Allah Ta'ala to encourage this feeling of love
and affection within her. Together with this, she should reflect over the rewards
she will acquire from Allah Ta'ala for rearing her children with love and affection.
She should also ponder over the possibility that perhaps these children will be
a source of her deliverance in the hereafter and she will also be rewarded for
whatever good or deeni services the children render after her death.
Contemplate over the possibility that these children will be a source of thawabe-
jariyah (perpetual benefit and reward) for you. And the greatest achievement
is the pleasure of Allah Ta'ala. He, with whom Allah Ta'ala is pleased has acquired
the success of this world as well as the next.
Ideal Mother
by Maulana Muhammad Hanif 'Abdul Majid
In the Name of Allah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
The mother is the heart and soul of the family. Her presence ensures
a systematic administration of all the household affairs. If the parents
reared their family correctly, then whether they live together or separately
in the future, the prestige, discipline and system of the family can always
be retained. Every member of such a family is dauntlessly able to face up
to any form of adverse conditions and he will be able to hang on to the
stout heartedness ingrained within him by his family and especially by his
mother.
In short, a person who has become familiar with turning defeat into victory,
for him every menace is child's play in which all players by consulting one
another overcome a difficulty with ease.
''I face up to the adversities of life with passion.
Life would have been difficult with comforts only.''
The person or family who holds firmly onto the rope of Allah Ta'ala and they
truly implement the verse, ''and hold firmly onto the rope of Allah'', for them
every defeat is transformed into triumph by Allah Ta'ala. They are bestowed
with tranquility and peace in their deeni as well as their worldly affairs.
If a mother is to overcome with fury over her children and she is unable to
develop the spirit of affection within herself, she should perform two rak'at
of salatul- hajah and pray unto Allah Ta'ala to encourage this feeling of love
and affection within her. Together with this, she should reflect over the rewards
she will acquire from Allah Ta'ala for rearing her children with love and affection.
She should also ponder over the possibility that perhaps these children will be
a source of her deliverance in the hereafter and she will also be rewarded for
whatever good or deeni services the children render after her death.
Contemplate over the possibility that these children will be a source of thawabe-
jariyah (perpetual benefit and reward) for you. And the greatest achievement
is the pleasure of Allah Ta'ala. He, with whom Allah Ta'ala is pleased has acquired
the success of this world as well as the next.
Ideal Mother
by Maulana Muhammad Hanif 'Abdul Majid
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Surah 03 Al-Imran Complete with English Translation - Mishary Rashid Al ...
The complete Recitation of Surah Ala Imran with English translation, easy to
learn and memorize for the ones who wants.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Smile
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
In the Name of Allah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
A Pleasant countenance is also one of the bounties of Allah Ta'ala. A simple
way of alleviating grief and keeping the children and husband happy is to smile
at everyone. It is said that a smile is a key to the door of love. The soul is con-
nected to the mind, the mind is allied to the brain and the brain is affiliated with
the heart. Only that woman is beautiful - externally or internally - who brings
about happiness and intimacy in the hearts of the children and husband.
Put it to the test yourself. Look at the smiling countenance of a mahram (non -
stranger) and you yourself will start smiling. Looking at his smiling face and
listening to his encouraging speech is bound to kindle the spirit of happiness in
your own heart. You will want to stay close to him as well. On the contrary, if
a face lacks even a trace of a smile, a person speaks as though a hacksaw has
spliced through his face, facial features are all monstrous, nose twitching with
anger and the person screams at the children so loudly that it disturbs the neigh-
bours, then this would surely upset you. You will want to stay as far away as
possible from such a person.
A French writer says : ''The heart is most delighted when a person with a happy
countenance is seated near you. The following statement has reached us through
some book dated a few hundred years ago : ''The happiness of the heart is as
effective as good medication.''
Doctor Beauf Land says : ''Smiling and laughing is a very healthy form of exercise.
It facilitates the digestion of the food. If you are intelligent, you will continue smiling.''
Allah Ta'ala has blessed you with a beloved child, a sinless baby, a chirping bird.
Smile when you come into contact with the child. Smile and pleasantly advice him
over his faults and errors. Welcome the women guests into your home with a pleasant
countenance. Speak pleasantly with your mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Come before
your husband with a smiling face. Together with a smiling face, let your eyes also smile.
InshaAllah, in a few days time your home will turn out to be a garden of bliss, peace
and tranquility. This same home will produce leaders of the Ummah and servants of
Deen. Such children will not only be a source of coolness for their parent's eyes but
they will be the stars and luminaries and a source of comfort for the entire Muslim
Ummah. May Allah Ta'ala make every Muslim home a blessed home like this.
Ameen.
Du'a for alleviating Grief
بسم اللهِ الَّذى لا اِلهَ إلا هُوَ الرَّحْمنُ الَّرحِيمُ
اللَّهُمَّ اذهِبْ عَنِّى الهَمَّ وَالحُزْنَ
''I begin in the name of Allah besides whom there is no deity. He is most
beneficent, most merciful. O Allah! Alleviate my grief and sorrow.''
(Tabrani)
Rasulullahصلى الله عليه وسلم used to recite this du'a after the Fard Salaah.
In the Name of Allah,
the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
A Pleasant countenance is also one of the bounties of Allah Ta'ala. A simple
way of alleviating grief and keeping the children and husband happy is to smile
at everyone. It is said that a smile is a key to the door of love. The soul is con-
nected to the mind, the mind is allied to the brain and the brain is affiliated with
the heart. Only that woman is beautiful - externally or internally - who brings
about happiness and intimacy in the hearts of the children and husband.
Put it to the test yourself. Look at the smiling countenance of a mahram (non -
stranger) and you yourself will start smiling. Looking at his smiling face and
listening to his encouraging speech is bound to kindle the spirit of happiness in
your own heart. You will want to stay close to him as well. On the contrary, if
a face lacks even a trace of a smile, a person speaks as though a hacksaw has
spliced through his face, facial features are all monstrous, nose twitching with
anger and the person screams at the children so loudly that it disturbs the neigh-
bours, then this would surely upset you. You will want to stay as far away as
possible from such a person.
A French writer says : ''The heart is most delighted when a person with a happy
countenance is seated near you. The following statement has reached us through
some book dated a few hundred years ago : ''The happiness of the heart is as
effective as good medication.''
Doctor Beauf Land says : ''Smiling and laughing is a very healthy form of exercise.
It facilitates the digestion of the food. If you are intelligent, you will continue smiling.''
Allah Ta'ala has blessed you with a beloved child, a sinless baby, a chirping bird.
Smile when you come into contact with the child. Smile and pleasantly advice him
over his faults and errors. Welcome the women guests into your home with a pleasant
countenance. Speak pleasantly with your mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Come before
your husband with a smiling face. Together with a smiling face, let your eyes also smile.
InshaAllah, in a few days time your home will turn out to be a garden of bliss, peace
and tranquility. This same home will produce leaders of the Ummah and servants of
Deen. Such children will not only be a source of coolness for their parent's eyes but
they will be the stars and luminaries and a source of comfort for the entire Muslim
Ummah. May Allah Ta'ala make every Muslim home a blessed home like this.
Ameen.
Du'a for alleviating Grief
بسم اللهِ الَّذى لا اِلهَ إلا هُوَ الرَّحْمنُ الَّرحِيمُ
اللَّهُمَّ اذهِبْ عَنِّى الهَمَّ وَالحُزْنَ
''I begin in the name of Allah besides whom there is no deity. He is most
beneficent, most merciful. O Allah! Alleviate my grief and sorrow.''
(Tabrani)
Rasulullahصلى الله عليه وسلم used to recite this du'a after the Fard Salaah.
Ideal Mother by
Maulana Muhammad Hanif 'Abdul Majid
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